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Originally Posted by Carmel
i for one would slap any man twice as hard if he slapped me
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I recall my mother used to remark, only in jest, to my father about this sort of thing, that
he'd only ever hit her once and then she'd wait until he was asleep and then she'd stab him with a big knife.......
They were both very much products of the war and the Forties and Fifties. I never knew of anyone in our working class social circle who was known to beat their wife, except one family. She had divorced him and although everyone frowned upon divorce in those days, I think she was sympathised with by most.
I have wondered if all this talk of beating was the people in the Fifties finding a way to come to terms with womens' changing family function etc. and women, like Sylvia, trying to square the peculiar human behaviour circle where many women want 'dominant' male partners (whatever that means). It was a common motif in old films for hysterical women to be slapped by the hero..... and then fall sobbing gratefully, into his arms.